The topic of payment often becomes the stumbling block that derails meetings before they even happen. It's not the money itself that causes concern, but how it is requested. The community at SoloPrive guides users in distinguishing professional payment requests from scam attempts: here are the key criteria you need to know.
The Golden Rule
A reputable professional never asks for payment before the meeting. The settlement should always occur upon arrival, in cash, without awkward counting or negotiations. If someone requests a "deposit" prior to providing even an address, you are dealing with a scam in 99% of cases. This is rule number one you must never forget.
Recommended Payment Methods
Not all payment methods carry the same level of security. Listed below from most secure to least secure:
- Cash in an envelope: this remains the industry standard—anonymous, immediate, and leaving no digital trail.
- Prepaid card top-ups: suitable only when asked for additional services such as hotel stays or transportation; it should never be requested for paying directly for the meeting itself.
- Bank transfer to a business account: acceptable exclusively with formally registered agencies; individual profiles should not be trusted using this method.
Payment Methods You Should Always Avoid
If anyone asks for these forms of payment before your appointment takes place, end communication immediately:
- PostePay reloads or similar prepaid card top-ups: by far the most common scam tactic—once money is sent this way, recovery is practically impossible.
- Amazon/iTunes/Steam gift cards: no genuine professional would accept these; their request is an unmistakable red flag signalling fraud.
- Cryptocurrency payments as advance deposits: transactions are irreversible and offer no protection if issues arise afterward.
- Western Union or MoneyGram transfers: